{"id":363,"date":"2019-04-29T13:52:35","date_gmt":"2019-04-29T13:52:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/themastersgoods.org\/?p=363"},"modified":"2019-04-29T13:52:37","modified_gmt":"2019-04-29T13:52:37","slug":"pharisees-pt-4-10-signs-you-might-be-a-pharisee-winning-the-battle-but","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/themastersgoods.org\/index.php\/2019\/04\/29\/pharisees-pt-4-10-signs-you-might-be-a-pharisee-winning-the-battle-but\/","title":{"rendered":"Pharisees Pt 4: 10 Signs You Might Be a Pharisee: Winning the Battle But . . .!"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><strong>Pharisees Pt 4: <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/themastersgoods.org\/index.php\/2019\/01\/31\/pharisees-part-one-10-signs-you-might-be-a-pharisee-confessions-of-a-reforming-pharisee\/\">Pharisees Pt 1<\/a><br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/themastersgoods.org\/index.php\/2019\/02\/11\/pharisees-pt-2-10-signs-you-might-be-a-pharisee-south-carolina-hole-checker\/\">Pharisees Pt 2<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/themastersgoods.org\/index.php\/2019\/03\/25\/pharisees-pt-3-10-signs-you-might-be-a-pharisee-the-bun-rule\/\">Pharisees Pt 3<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>12 Signs You Might Be a Pharisee: Winning the Battle But . . .!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There\n are some folks you can\u2019t defeat in a debate. . . ever . . . whether you\n are right or wrong! I am reminded of the idiom, \u201cHe could sell ice \ncubes to Eskimos.\u201d (I hope that\u2019s not too terribly \u201cPC\u201d) &nbsp;But it does \nexplain how some are much more persuasive than others. &nbsp;Some influential\n Pharisees got the &#8220;Debate Gene&#8221;.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>&nbsp;I remember when I was \nin 7th grade in Texas History class.&nbsp; The teacher wanted us to explore \nthe battle for Texas independence from several perspectives.&nbsp; One of the\n things we had to do was debate whether or not general Santa Anna should\n be tried for war crimes.&nbsp; Now we all HATED Santa Anna.&nbsp; After all he \nkilled John Wayne!!! (Well . . . in the movie he did.) But I was chosen \nto be on the side that defended Santa Anna.&nbsp; Man! I was angry!&nbsp; How \ncould the teacher expect ME the biggest Santa Anna hater of all to \ndefend him?!? Well I finally gave in and we set off to study the \nissues.&nbsp; And something strange happened.&nbsp; WE LEARNED!!! My side won the \ndebate.&nbsp; Now I\u2019m still not a big fan of Santa Anna (John Wayne \nKiller!\u2014Remember the Alamo!&nbsp; Remember Goliad!)&nbsp;&nbsp; . . . ahem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But I do know how to win a debate. I am good at it.&nbsp; It is fun-fun-fun for me! I know lots of tricks. &nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Matthew gives us some insight as to how the Pharisee\u2019s mind works<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><em>Matthew 22:<\/em><\/strong><strong><em>15 <\/em><\/strong><em>Then went the Pharisees, and took counsel how they might entangle him in his talk.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>8)&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; You might be a Pharisee if you are more interested in winning the argument than winning the person.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>These\n Pharisees in Matt 22 were skilled debaters. This is a necessary skill \nif you re to keep questions to a minimum.&nbsp; The truth becomes, in a \nPharisee\u2019s mind, the winning of a debate. Some folks aren\u2019t good at it \nand will not even bother because they know that they can\u2019t say anything \nskillfully enough to \u201cwin\u201d.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This came to light in a \ndevastatingly powerful manner, one evening when I was on a Christian \nMessage board online.&nbsp; I was debating and as usual I was using my wit \nand sarcasm to \u201cmake my point\u201d.&nbsp; I was startled by a voice from behind \nme.&nbsp; \u201cOoooh BURN!!!\u201d It was my teenage son.&nbsp; He thought it was cool that\n I was crushing my opponent and making him feel stupid. Man did I have \nsome \u2018splainin-to-do-Lucy!&nbsp; I tried to explain to my son that I wasn\u2019t \ntrying to \u201cburn\u201d the other person; that I was trying (in a godly manner)\n to help him by pointing out his error.&nbsp; He accepted that explanation \nbut it was too late for me.&nbsp; God had made His point.&nbsp; I was trying to \n\u201cburn\u201d the guy.&nbsp; It gave me a sense of control, of importance, of worth \nto be able to calmly shred a person\u2019s arguments.&nbsp; But did I make a \nfriend?&nbsp; Did God enter into a new depth of relationship through me with \nthe other person? Did the man\u2019s position change?&nbsp; Did his heart change?&nbsp;\n Was he so awed by my deft debating that he fell on his knees and \nrepented? No. No. No. No. And&nbsp; . . .let\u2019s see . . . uh no.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A\n family member (now deceased) who was a life long preacher once gave me \nsome advice.&nbsp; He said, \u201cWin them to yourself first, then you can win \nthem to Jesus, because you are the incarnational representation of Jesus\n on Earth right now.\u201d I cannot make a man repent.&nbsp; I can\u2019t make him \nbelieve anything.&nbsp; But I can control my attitude when dealing with the \nman. If I have no relationship with a person, or a strained \nrelationship, I cannot win the man.&nbsp; The Bible says \u201cHe that winneth \nSOULS is wise.\u201d (Interesting word choice.)&nbsp; It\u2019s the area of the soul \nwhere I can \u201cwin the man.\u201d&nbsp; The spirit is God\u2019s department.&nbsp; I have seen\n food, music, sharing a book, sharing a trial, sharing your pain, \nmeeting a need, or even just a simple kind word in due season, do, in a \nsecond, what a million years of winning debates could never do!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The\n Pharisee wanted to entangle Jesus in his talk, wanted to win the \ndebate. Peter proved that a sword can be used to cut off a man\u2019s ear.&nbsp; \nIf you use the mighty sword of God\u2019s word in that manner, don\u2019t be \nsurprised when the injured person doesn\u2019t listen to you.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Oh\n yeah, and one more thing about Santa Anna. &nbsp;I learned from defending \nhim that the truth is not always so black and white. Sometimes it&#8217;s \nmulti faceted. &nbsp;Sometimes it&#8217;s messy and uncomfortable. Like us.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Pharisees Pt 4: Pharisees Pt 1 Pharisees Pt 2 Pharisees Pt 3 12 Signs You Might Be a Pharisee: Winning the Battle But . . .! There are some folks you can\u2019t defeat in a debate. . . ever . . . whether you are right or wrong! 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